The trick is not to get too emotional that the mind doesn't know how to respond or what to do... As ur attempt to feel what's natural to us all comin from that sweet spot needing to be touched n put to use... Over emotionalizing without enough thought process to maintain a level head will have u in a state of self destruction... N that's the moments where u lose control bcuz u haven't matured equivalently as relations takes a toll in a new direction... To relate is a mental issue guided by the devotion aimed at a friend without overthinking the process n remain subtle in a vocal response... But this prolly sounds like a bunch of jibberish to those who simply don't understand luv is more than claimin depths before they get lost...