As happy as gay can be...

I have hay friends so does that make me gay.? I also have hay family members who went the other way... N it seems like I'm happy with myself so I must be gay... Yet I'm only attracted to my opposing sex as to me that is ok... Does it make me gay for being happy for someone who can be honest with themself.?. Bcuz I have a hard time understanding how to feel about the hate that is felt... Who's turn is it to worry about what other people do.?. If like to talk to them about the situation that's overdue... Seems gay people like race n ethnicity are different from the standard of life... As it's sad to down play someones existence bcuz they ain't the same as controlled minds... Am I gay but I accept people for who they are.?. I sure am happy for the ones I know that's found themselves in the mind n the heart...