FAMILY

As family its not about picking sides. More so, tightening up one an others flaws. Prepairing each other for the world that could care less. Without communication not a one will witness their own accomplishments. Contructive critisism is a key factor to helping loved ones who are willing or unwilling. Listen to family that doesn't wanna cause problems for they have learned something and are willing to pass it on to you. We are all surrounded and molded by family because they know us best. That is if we're fortunate to have one worth the time put in. Yes everyone changes but the one you were born with inside of you will remain until the end. F.a.m.I.l.y. those who have your best interest if raised correctly. F.a.m.I.l.y. Those who will stand next to you if one does indeed do more than act like they care. Pointing out an others wrong or mishap is not an selfish act. Its a way of showing one cares with interest that they can bring about how one can sharpen their game sort of speak. Becoming self and knowing who self is by learning and not being so stuborn. But it all starts with the parents. If they are not willing to teach and guide in a manor that will raise respestable individuals that can fend for themselves if all else fails. They have not only failed themself as a parent but has failed in the state of mind that they did not do all they can to ready their own blood. Family is rare in this day in age. There's always something going on that pulls and pushes on the bond like the devil on ones faith. No one is obligated by blood to deal with those whom take advantage or cause or is a constant issue. We are human. If relations are not right, then a connection is lost that will never return. Nothing will ever be the same for re occuring events in moments that hurt and frustrate the will being of the definition of the integrity of the word family. Accepting someone as member is with an ubderstanding is vital. Any member can choose whom they love and is not for self to decide that another can be with them. It is their life outside the boundaries of the immediate family that they live. It's not a seperation kind of thing, yet a combination of growing up and adding to the well being of the happiness as those around you are happy for you. And as you join forces with an other that has a family already and accepts you, for you are good to a piece of their family as well. Its simple logic. Blood runs thicker than water. Yet water quinches the thirst. Balance is more than neccesary to having an unbreakable love shared by true family.........

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